Daily Inspiration: Virtual Reality Helps Couple Relive Past Experiences

Nathan Windsor has worked for over a decade doing music therapy for nursing homes. He recently decided to start incorporating virtual reality recapture happy moments.

The couple featured in this video are in their 90s and have been married over 60 years. During those years they traveled frequently, harboring souvenirs from their adventures.

Due to age and limited mobility, they are no longer able to travel. Nathan presents them with virtual reality to go back to their most precious memories.

Facebook: For Better or For Worse?

If you were born in the last century- you have heard of Facebook. The social media site has become a staple of daily life. With the amount of users climbing over one billion worldwide, it is safe to say it is wildly popular. Popularity though, has its drawbacks.

Former Facebook founder, Chamath Palihapitiya, isn’t necessarily proud of his achievements at the company. As reported by  The Verge, Palihapitiya voices his growing concern with the direction of social interactions on the platform.

“I think we have created tools that are ripping apart the social fabric of how society works,” he told an audience at Stanford Graduate School of Business, before recommending people take a “hard break” from social media.

Palihapitiya’s criticisms were aimed not only at Facebook, but the wider online ecosystem. “The short-term, dopamine-driven feedback loops we’ve created are destroying how society works,” he said, referring to online interactions driven by “hearts, likes, thumbs-up.” “No civil discourse, no cooperation; misinformation, mistruth. And it’s not an American problem — this is not about Russians ads. This is a global problem.”

Facebook was founded in 2004 and initially garnered attention from college students. To sign up you needed a college email and you were able to network with other students from your school or others. Eventually, this platform was opened to everyone and was a place to stay in touch with loved ones to share pictures and silly statuses about mundane aspects of life.

Fast-forward over a decade later, and social media has centered itself  around the success of Facebook. The growing popularity, grabbed the attention of companies looking to jump on the this new technological tether. Ad’s are tailored to our preferences and news from around the world is available at our finger tips 24/7. Sounds great, right?

In theory this type of ‘social’ interaction is amazing. In reality, it has fed into the egos, insecurities and the dark side of its user-base. Instant feedback has driven many people to portray themselves to be living an envious life. The quest of perfection has also altered the perspectives of the youth on what is real and attainable in life, off screen.

Users also hide behind a degree of anonymity to spread negativity. Comment sections of highly viewed posts are often a graveyard for positivity. Trolling and bullying has gotten so out of hand on social media that it has been attributed to the decline of mental health among young people.  But- big changes are coming.

Shortly after Palihapitiya highlighted the damaging effects of using the platform, a conversation started. Mark Zuckerberg, Facebook’s co-founder, has offered up a good faith measure. He said that the company would re-prioritize algorithms to focus on making more meaningful connections for users.

This change may bring back a sense of ‘community’ to the social media empire. Many of the negatives aspects aren’t likely to completely disappear; it is encouraging that Facebook is willing to start somewhere, to make the internet civil again.

Has Society Evolved into New York City?

New York City isn’t known to be the place to go when you are looking to give out brownie points for hospitality. Tourists and locals alike will tell you that people who inhabit this city carry a bit of an edge. An edge that seems to be more obnoxious and pushy than most people would come to like. New York has come to terms with its reputation and invited people to come take on its bustling city in all of its nice and not so nice glory. But what if the reputation that has long surrounded New Yorker’s was long ahead of its time? What if it was a precursor for the mentality that all of us would soon develop?

When you think of this or any major city, what comes to mind? Fast moving, bustling and sleeplessness are a few things and rightfully so. In a place where you would attribute these words, it would be expected to house a certain type of person- impatient, insensitive, moody, unappreciative (ie: a person lacking good sense and common courtesy). Do these characteristics sounds familiar? It may be possible that you have started to see them a little closer to home because these traits are beginning to seem reflective of the general population.

In the world of technology we have each created our own personal hubs of bustling city life no matter where we reside. While I don’t have any significant statistics, it is safe to say that the majority of the population has staked its claim in the information age. The average person probably owns a cell phone, computer, notebook and maybe even a smart watch. All that to keep them focused on twenty-four hour news cycles, instantaneous status updates and answers to all of life’s looming questions in a New York minute. One can get accustomed to this life of conveniences and hast. The more plugged in we are to our technological devices the less connected we are to humanity.

New and modern advances in technology is definitely the best thing to happen to us since the first showing of indoor plumbing. People have access to and can do things that the thought of would have hailed you a witch barely 100 years ago. However, everything has a price. Those traits that used to only be associated with pesky New Yorker’s are popping up far and in between as people become less patient, sensitive, and appreciative. On the backside of this tremendous benefit, a ‘me, me, me’ subculture has arisen only to demand more of our thoughts but less of our manners. Needless to say, when we disconnect long enough to encounter it, it serves as a reminder that even though we love to be plugged in, a lesson from Mary Poppins could do us all a little good now and then.